tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post9111153929544322779..comments2024-03-19T10:13:56.342-05:00Comments on Walking with Dancers: 38 WeeksLydiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14834453573285443355noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-44824023579589279652012-06-20T08:54:08.151-05:002012-06-20T08:54:08.151-05:00Thanks! I really really appreciate the prayers and...Thanks! I really really appreciate the prayers and support! <br />I have thought about seeing a therapist, but haven't felt motivated to look into it. I feel nervous I'd wind up at someone who is unhelpful. I wasn't sure how to even go about starting to figure that stuff out. And at this point I kinda feel like it's a bit late.<br />And I actually purposefully skipped the last ICAN meeting because I was apprehensive to hear anything that might get me more nervous this close to her arriving. I plan to go again after baby is here.<br />I know I sound like a mess, but I am still truckin. :) And am working on my next post where I share my drastic mood swing in a happy direction. lol. Ah pregnancy hormones. :)Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834453573285443355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-41077820445236158832012-06-20T08:44:06.693-05:002012-06-20T08:44:06.693-05:00Thanks Heidi, you are very right. I will be prayin...Thanks Heidi, you are very right. I will be praying for you and your little one.Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834453573285443355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-10818753402346616462012-06-20T08:42:24.322-05:002012-06-20T08:42:24.322-05:00Ha ha! That's hilarious, Jill! I didn't ev...Ha ha! That's hilarious, Jill! I didn't even notice, and read it as Hug. But it's cracking me up -- huge could be a dangerous word to use around a pregnant women. ;) I didn't take it that way. :)Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834453573285443355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-36161183375449923262012-06-19T23:32:03.453-05:002012-06-19T23:32:03.453-05:00Cyber HUG. not huge. HUG. sorry :(Cyber HUG. not huge. HUG. sorry :(Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06728262874016878275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-59869294593625900882012-06-19T15:41:26.610-05:002012-06-19T15:41:26.610-05:00Big cyber huge to you, Lydia! I can't possibl...Big cyber huge to you, Lydia! I can't possibly understand what you are feeling, but we are praying for you and rooting for you. You went through something traumatic before, and allowing yourself to process it, no matter how long it has been, is a good thing. Have you considered talking to a therapist one or twice before next baby comes? I have no idea if it would help, but I know my therapy experiences have been wonderful. Or maybe go to another ICAN meeting? <br /><br />Hang in there Lydia. There is no way to know how this birth will go, but you are doing EVERYTHING right!!Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06728262874016878275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6110052640237660954.post-83484172205457321912012-06-19T10:43:14.996-05:002012-06-19T10:43:14.996-05:00I just recently started following your blog, and I...I just recently started following your blog, and I just wanted to offer some encouragement. I suffered a loss last August at 19 weeks, and it taught me so much about perspective. Please try to remember that sometimes the way we get to our goal isn't the most important part; it's how we view the journey, and how absolutely important that little goal at the end is.<br /><br />I am now 19 weeks pregnant again and I can tell you that this circuitous journey I have been on to bring home a healthy baby has taught me a massive amount about letting go. I can't control this, I can only support it. I'm sending tons of positive thoughts in your direction. Just hang on, it will be beyond worth it in the end <3Heidi Regahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04996340067705241285noreply@blogger.com